Paraphilias

Do you all know what a paraphilia is? If you do not know, it is an abnormal or unusual sexual desire that typically involves extreme or dangerous activities - or basically a focus of erotic interest. It can also be called a kink. These are not always dangerous. A lot of the times, a paraphilia is harmless it just makes the person considered weird. There are all kinds of paraphilias. I was not all too aware of this before, but I found out that mine is seismophilia(earthquakes). I realized that I feel excitement and arousal with seismic waves. I even have it just seeing cracks in the ground, on a wall, or in concrete, rocks violently crashing, and the process of deformation in the elastic rebound theory in which strain builds up in a fault which is eventually to give way to an earthquake. I have come to terms that my desires are unconventional. I realized that though I may be attracted to a man, I don't see myself ever having intercourse. I was realizing that I am honestly shy and uncomfortable looking at genitals. I notice that I can look at the sexiest man in the world, but don't experience true arousal(that wet feeling in my underwear - sorry for being graphic). I have had this odd fantasy involving me being hit with seismic waves and transferring that energy throughout the surrounding, effected areas and it hitting  certain men I'm attracted to like the ones I saw on the beach that one time. I have in the past had that weird, if not creepy vision of affecting them where it gives them a boner and even gives some pain to those who would resonate more with this energy - the deeper the feeling they resonate with the earth, the more pain in that moment. I mean, that was something I played with in my mind a few years ago. I am on Tumblr and met some very intelligent people on that site where I learned about paraphilias and the different types: Podophilia, Necrophilia, Salirophilia, Seismophilia, Zoophilia, etc. There are some very sick and dangerous ones such as Pedophilia, Raptophilia(fantasy of committing rape), Anthropophagolagnia(raping and then cannibalizing another person), Asphyxiophilia(being strangled), and more that are very disturbing(and some that are quite gross) that I rather not tell more and am sorry to know some of these exist. I learned about "kinks" on Tumblr and between me and many other bloggers, there is no kink-shaming. Don't worry, none of those people I interact with there have any of the following dangerous obsessions. There are some known hybristophiles on that site though. I never thought I would come forward with this, but here you go..